Sending love to others - how to do it?

I remember how I had an intuitive feeling about sending love to someone - it was around 2013. I did not know how to do this properly; all I did was relaxing, seeing a person I want to send love to with my inner sight and imagining a stream of bright light going from my heart area to this person's. It actually worked great and I could see the result, but later I felt absolutely exhausted. That happened because I gave the stream of my own life energy to someone else completely, and there was nothing left for me. Of course I experienced lack of energy later myself! 

And in 2015, my dear friend Natasha Liskun told me to read one book - "Living on Love. The Messenger", written my Klaus J. Joehle. The book is a bit strange, but, although I can't agree with everything that's written there, it was quite fun to read - after all, I experienced "strange" things myself, and not once. But what is the most important, the book contained the information I needed so much - how to fill yourself with love [energy] and send it. There I could find the instructions and realize what was my mistake when I started to send love to other people and why I felt total exhaustion. 

So the main rule is this: if you want to send love to someone, fill yourself first. Open your heart and let the energy flow, filling yourself, giving yourself more. And send love to whoever else only after you do this for a couple of minutes. In this case you'll have more energy for yourself, and you will feel absolutely fine giving love to someone from the open infinite source. Because if the heart in not open, you can only give this small amount of love you actually have for yourself. Sacrifice is not necessary here: it is very unwise to give your last energy to someone, having the connection to the infinite source within you all the time! So it is way better (and wiser) to open to it and to give love to you and to whoever you want. And the better you feel, the more love you can give to others, and you can do this more often. So take care of yourself first!

I send love to people and I saw how it works plenty of times! From "small" experience of cheering somebody up, to "big" experience of helping someone to get absolutely healthy within impossibly short period of time. So when people tell me that they "don't believe in this kind of bullshit", I just leave them be, because arguing is just a waste of time, and if I do something and see the results (sometimes they look like miracles) - nobody will convince me otherwise. 

So if you want to try it - there is how you can do it! I'll give you some excerpts from "Living on Love. The Messenger", the book that taught me how to do this properly.

First of all - opening the heart and filling yourself with love:

"Imagine that there is a very bright light in the center of your chest like a very large brilliant diamond glowing as bright as the sun. Use your imagination any way you like. See this glowing light as Love. You can see it as sparkles or a golden light, whatever you choose. Just focus on the fact that it is Love. Now allow this Love that is glowing from your heart to become brighter and larger. Use your inner senses to increase the size and bring it out and beyond your body so that you are becoming a small sun glowing and radiating with Love".

How to send love to anyone you want:

"Imagine yourself becoming lighter, and by becoming lighter and lighter you are raising your vibration. Sort of like musical notes going higher and higher. Put a bubble of light around yourself as if you are in a balloon and begin to float upwards. As you do this, imagine that you are floating to wherever you want to go. This will only take a few seconds. Time and distance means nothing to the mind or your consciousness. Allow yourself to see whatever or whoever it is you want to see. Don’t concern yourself with the surroundings unless that is important to you. It’s important to send Love and surround and fill whoever or whatever you are visiting with Love. [...] Now if you want to communicate with them, do so, but in a very loving manner. Be sure to listen. You may or may not hear actual words, but you may get impressions in your thoughts of what this other person may be telling you. Be honest... tell it like it is. Whatever you do, do it from your heart, not from your ego. If you’ve made promises, stick to them. When you’re done, slowly bring yourself back. Before getting up, take time to think about what you said or heard.

For instance, if you consciously talk to someone, they may not know it, and there is a good chance they will not, but you are talking to a part of them and in some way their subconscious will make every effort possible to relay this information to their conscious mind. This may come for them in the senses or feelings or intuition. You do not need to be afraid of interfering with someone’s privacy because at every stage of each person’s development, those areas will be dealt with and handled by the larger part of each person involved, depending on the relationship you have with this person. Have fun, share Love"

More detailed: 

"There are different ways you can send Love to other people; each of which has a tendency to give different results.

When you send Love to another person, it’s best when we expect nothing in return but are just giving a gift of unconditional Love. It’s usually best if you send the Love totally unconditionally; in other words, letting the other person decide in what manner it is best used. Because we are more than our conscious mind, that larger part of ourselves will direct the Love into whatever area it is most needed in the present moment. It is, however, possible to send Love and put a small stipulation with it, as when someone is very ill and you are sending Love to assist their healing. Still in my experience, ninety percent of the time I have found that it is best just to send them Love because sometimes their illness can actually do them more good in the long run than a quick recovery. Sometimes if someone is ill, I will send them Love in various ways, one being unconditional, and also at a separate time send them Love to assist their healing. I do this only if it feels right at the time. When your heart is open and you are radiant with Love, quietly ask which way would be best for this person at this time. You will always receive an answer, most likely as a feeling. If it feels right, do it.

Here are a few different ways that you can send Love. I assume you will know which one will be the correct one at a given time for this particular person.

1. We can send Love and surround the person with Love, filling with Love the room that this person might be in. This works extremely well in many different circumstances, such as a party that is not going very well. Simply surround everyone with Love and you’ll find that the entire mood will change very quickly. This also works well in meetings or job interviews, or even a get-together with a friend. It’s like draping them with a warm blanket of Love. And who would say no to that. This also works extremely well if you happen to be with a person who is very nervous or agitated or irritated. You will find that they will calm down considerably and very quickly. In case you’re thinking this has anything to do with control, Love has nothing to with control. This is a lot like giving someone a hug, but it’s a hundred times more beneficial.

2. We can send Love directly into the person and filling them with Love, and also send Love to a particular area in their body that they are having some problems with. If you are doing this, imagine the Love going into this particular area in the body and totally filling each cell with Love until they begin to glow and radiate Love. Then visualize whatever ailment they have leaving the body. You can visualize this any way you like. It is your intent to send Love that brings it about. Visualizing it is only the method to engage your intent.

3. We can send Love directly to a person’s heart. This will assist that person in opening their heart and allows the Love to flow into them from their own heart center. This works extremely well if someone has recently ended a relationship or is going through a life crisis and is experiencing a lot of pain. This works extremely well under those circumstances because one of the main reasons they are feeling this pain is because their heart has begun to close. There is nothing more painful.

4. We can also send Love directly to another person’s heart in order to connect more closely with them, such as with your mate or lover. You will find that this creates a very close connection and even allows you to be with that person despite the fact that they may be far away. If two people agree to do this with each other, it can become one of the most beautiful and loving experiences you might ever have. It creates an incredible bond between two people and at the same time you will still be an individual. This sounds like an incredible combination, but it works. And it’s beautiful because you will never feel alone, providing both of you agree to this. Timing is not important. Love works beyond time so even if you send your mate Love in the morning and your mate did not do it until the evening, the connection will be exactly the same as if you had done it at exactly the same time. It doesn’t really matter how this works. What is important is that it does, and that the results are beautiful.

Open your heart and fill and surround yourself with Love. Then imagine a beam of Love coming from that glowing heart center in your chest, moving upwards to your mind and head center. Now see a beautiful golden beam of Love going from your eyes directly to the eyes of your mate or Lover. Continue with this and at the same time see another beautiful golden beam of Love coming from your heart and going directly to your mate or lover’s heart. Be still and continue this for as long as you like. You can also do this at any time of the day and as many times as you like. Remember that Love is unconditional and there are no controlling factors involved here what so ever. When your lover or mate does the same, the connection will be complete even though it is not necessarily done at the same moment. The more you do this the closer you will be connected. I’ll let you discover the magic of that, but don’t be too surprised if you begin to know what he or she is about to say even before they say it.

So there it is. I’m sure that many of you will discover new things and new ways of sending Love. That’s the joy of it. When your heart is open and you are filled and radiant with Love, you will know exactly what to do. Just follow that inner guidance and trust that Love is capable of working its own miracles. All we need to do is give a little. When I first started with all of this, I used to see Love as a golden sparkling light and I would imagine seeing it go exactly where I was sending it. It doesn’t matter how you see Love in your minds eye, only that you have the intention to send Love. I’ve slowly discovered that using my imagination sends a message to some larger part of myself, which then initiates the process of opening my heart and sending Love. But the bottom line is always the same: it works. When you feel that you have sent enough Love, stop and continue some other time. You cannot hurt anyone by sending Love, so there is really no reason to be afraid. Have fun!"

Hope you give it a try and see how it works for yourself! =) 

P.S. I created this post in 2016, and now, in 2022, I want to add this wonderful song that resonates so much with what is written above!